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FELICIA L. STANTON of BELCHERTOWN, MA, December 4, 1940 – July 17, 2024
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BELCHERTOWN,MA. Felicia Lena (Giancola) Stanton, of 196 Franklin St, Belchertown, passed away peacefully at her home on July 17th, 2024. She was 83 years old. Felicia was born in Brooklyn, NY on December 4th, 1940, to parents Marie Agnes (Bohack) Giancola, and James Felix Giancola. She and her family moved to Long Island in 1951, and six years later, she happened to look out the window and see her future husband moving into the house next door. It was love at first sight. Not too soon after, they made a failed attempt to elope when she was 17 and he was 15, but they were undeterred and eventually married on November 15th, 1959.
She received her degree from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst when she was thirty six years old. She made being a mother a priority and put her own education aside until her children were older. Though she considered a career in social work, she ended up focusing instead on her creative passion for art. She was an amazing artist, concentrating predominantly in watercolor painting, and she realized that becoming a teacher would be the path she would follow in order to share her gift. She earned her teaching credentials and went on to pass along that passion to her young students at Windy Hill elementary School in Jacksonville, Fl, where she taught for more than a decade, and where she won Teacher of the Year honors in 1989. She retired from teaching in 2002, and when her husband retired in 2007, they returned to Massachusetts for good.
All that being said, none of it manages to capture the essence of who Felicia was. She somehow managed to become a trusted confidant to all those who knew her. She would listen intently without interrupting, and then offer guidance and advice in such a gentle way that her words alone made those she comforted feel immediately better. She will be remembered as a bright, talented, caring person who managed to make everyone she touched feel loved and special. She was our Maw. She was deeply loved. And she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Felicia leaves behind her husband, Robert Stanton, her sister Marie (Giancola) Doyle and her husband, Peter Doyle, her son, Bobby Stanton, of Holyoke, her daughter-in-law, Meredith (Greaney) Stanton, her daughter Sharon (Stanton) and son-in-law David Krock, and her grandchildren, Charlie and Sammy Stanton.
Funeral Services will be at the convenience of the family.
Donations in Felicia’s memory can be made to Dakin Humane Society at www.dakinhumane.org
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
FELICIA L. STANTON of BELCHERTOWN, MA, December 4, 1940 – July 16, 2024
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BELCHERTOWN,MA. Felicia Lena (Giancola) Stanton, of 196 Franklin St, Belchertown, passed away peacefully at her home on July 16th, 2024. She was 83 years old. Felicia was born in Brooklyn, NY on December 4th, 1940, to parents Marie Agnes (Bohack) Giancola, and James Felix Giancola. She and her family moved to Long Island in 1951, and six years later, she happened to look out the window and see her future husband moving into the house next door. It was love at first sight. Not too soon after, they made a failed attempt to elope when she was 17 and he was 15, but they were undeterred and eventually married on November 15th, 1959.
She received her degree from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst when she was thirty six years old. She made being a mother a priority and put her own education aside until her children were older. Though she considered a career in social work, she ended up focusing instead on her creative passion for art. She was an amazing artist, concentrating predominantly in watercolor painting, and she realized that becoming a teacher would be the path she would follow in order to share her gift. She earned her teaching credentials and went on to pass along that passion to her young students at Windy Hill elementary School in Jacksonville, Fl, where she taught for more than a decade, and where she won Teacher of the Year honors in 1989. She retired from teaching in 2002, and when her husband retired in 2007, they returned to Massachusetts for good.
All that being said, none of it manages to capture the essence of who Felicia was. She somehow managed to become a trusted confidant to all those who knew her. She would listen intently without interrupting, and then offer guidance and advice in such a gentle way that her words alone made those she comforted feel immediately better. She will be remembered as a bright, talented, caring person who managed to make everyone she touched feel loved and special. She was our Maw. She was deeply loved. And she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Felicia leaves behind her husband, Robert Stanton, her sister Marie (Giancola) Doyle and her husband, Peter Doyle, her son, Bobby Stanton, of Holyoke, her daughter-in-law, Meredith (Greaney) Stanton, her daughter Sharon (Stanton) and son-in-law David Krock, and her grandchildren, Charlie and Sammy Stanton.
Funeral Services will be at the convenience of the family.
Donations in Felicia’s memory can be made to Dakin Humane Society at www.dakinhumane.org
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
FELICIA L. STANTON of BELCHERTOWN, MA, December 4, 1940 – July 13, 2024
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BELCHERTOWN,MA. Felicia Lena (Giancola) Stanton, of 196 Franklin St, Belchertown, passed away peacefully at her home on July 16th, 2024. She was 83 years old. Felicia was born in Brooklyn, NY on December 4th, 1940, to parents Marie Agnes (Bohack) Giancola, and James Felix Giancola. She and her family moved to Long Island in 1951, and six years later, she happened to look out the window and see her future husband moving into the house next door. It was love at first sight. Not too soon after, they made a failed attempt to elope when she was 17 and he was 15, but they were undeterred and eventually married on November 15th, 1959.
She received her degree from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst when she was thirty six years old. She made being a mother a priority and put her own education aside until her children were older. Though she considered a career in social work, she ended up focusing instead on her creative passion for art. She was an amazing artist, concentrating predominantly in watercolor painting, and she realized that becoming a teacher would be the path she would follow in order to share her gift. She earned her teaching credentials and went on to pass along that passion to her young students at Windy Hill elementary School in Jacksonville, Fl, where she taught for more than a decade, and where she won Teacher of the Year honors in 1989. She retired from teaching in 2002, and when her husband retired in 2007, they returned to Massachusetts for good.
All that being said, none of it manages to capture the essence of who Felicia was. She somehow managed to become a trusted confidant to all those who knew her. She would listen intently without interrupting, and then offer guidance and advice in such a gentle way that her words alone made those she comforted feel immediately better. She will be remembered as a bright, talented, caring person who managed to make everyone she touched feel loved and special. She was our Maw. She was deeply loved. And she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Felicia leaves behind her husband, Robert Stanton, her sister Marie (Giancola) Doyle and her husband, Peter Doyle, her son, Bobby Stanton, of Holyoke, her daughter-in-law, Meredith (Greaney) Stanton, her daughter Sharon (Stanton) and son-in-law David Krock, and her grandchildren, Charlie and Sammy Stanton.
Funeral Services will be at the convenience of the family.
Donations in Felicia’s memory can be made to Dakin Humane Society at www.dakinhumane.org
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
CAROL SCHABACKER of HADLEY, MA, April 12, 1942 – July 22, 2024
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Carol Schabacker, 82, of Hadley, passed away on July 22, 2024, after a brief illness. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt to many. She was the daughter of Felix and Julia Peterson (Tidlund) and a sibling to David (Ellie) and Alan (Becky). She graduated from Amherst Regional School in 1959. Her tenacity and expertise with numbers helped her begin her career at Amherst Savings Bank and later with the treasurer’s office at UMASS Amherst until 2000 when she retired.
She met her husband, Don, in March of 1962, and after a brief courtship married on June 1, 1963. While traveling with her husband’s job she had four children: Don Schabacker (Betsy); Gail Wright (partner, Michael Salvatore); Scott Schabacker (Melissa); and Kristi Callaghan (Jim). She also had six grandchildren: Patrick, McKenzie, Caroline, Sean, Ashley, and Samuel. She treasured her time with them when they were young making their birthday cakes, decorating gingerbread houses, making Halloween costumes, taking them for day trips, and spending time with them on several trips as they matured.
Carol loved to read, play cards, and watch HGTV and UCONN women’s basketball. As a couple, they enjoyed traveling as much as possible to new places, but their trips to Maine was especially memorable. She was a careful listener and an exceptional friend to many. Carol, also known affectionately as Pete or Trinka, was a very selfless, thoughtful, and kind soul. She was a people person, and everyone who met her loved her. She will be missed tremendously, but her best attributes will live on through her family and friends.
Calling hours will be held on July 31, 2024, at Douglas Funeral Home from 10:00-11:30 with burial service directly afterward.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the cause of your choice.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
WALTER FREDRICK FILIOS of LONG BEACH, MS, March 8, 1956 – July 12, 2024
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Walter Frederick Filios passed away peacefully Friday, July 12, 2024 due to complications from diabetes. He was born Mar. 8, 1956, in Northampton MA, to Norma (Dick) and Frederick Filios. Walter grew up primarily in Amherst MA, with the exception of two years when his family resided in Panama. He attended Amherst Regional High School for one year, but graduated from St. Michael’s High School in Northampton MA in 1974. In his teen years he ran a paper route from Hastings Stationary store in Amherst, worked at Flavortown restaurant, and was a member of the Boy Scout troop 503.
After high school, he attended Michigan Technological University in Houghton Michigan for one year before enlisting in the U.S. Army. After basic training Walter completed combat engineer training at Fort Leonard Wooden MO. Walter was then stationed in Bamburg, Germany where he attained the rank of Specialist 4. Unfortunately, Walter was then diagnosed with type 2 Diabetes, resulting in his medical discharge from the Army. However, Walter remained a proud veteran for the rest of his life.
Returning to Amherst Walter worked at several jobs while also learning to be a sound technician for musical acts. In 1978 Walter moved to Santa Cruz, California as the sound technician for The Ernie Buck Band. While the band had some success Walter found he needed to pursue other employment and he worked for several years – first as an electrical technician for Seagate Technology, and then as an environmental technician before returning to school to pursue a bachelor’s degree in business administration at California State University, Stanislaus.
In 1990 Walter returned to Massachusetts to join the family small site engineering business, Filios Enterprises, and to serve as the general contractor, helping his father and mother build their retirement home. He also found further employment in Greenfield MA as a land surveyor.
Returning to California in 1993 Walter continued to work as a land surveyor until his diabetes began causing progressive blindness and resulted in him becoming disabled and unable to work.
While in California he met his wife Suzanne (Porter) Filios, whom he married in 2011 at a ceremony at Yosemite National Park attended by his family and friends. In 2014 Walter and Suzanne moved to first Gulfport and then Long Beach MS, residing there until his death.
He will be deeply missed by his wife Suzanne of Long Beach MS, his 7 remaining siblings: Kathryn Finn of Amherst, Paul and wife Krys of Alexandria, Virginia, Teresa Korpita and husband John of Sunderland, William and wife Larissa of Malden, Marita Magnant and husband Gary of Topsfield, Elizabeth Tyler and husband William of Hadley, and Laurie Blanchard and husband Daniel of Southborough; as well as his 20 nieces and nephews, Michael, Danette, Bridget, Socorro, and Teresa, children of Kathryn; Kimberly, Jason, Sarah, Paula, and Patrick, children of Paul; Ksenia and Marina, children of Teresa; Salvatore, son of William; Ross, Sage, and Grace, children of Marita; John and Kathryn, children of Elizabeth; and Georgieanna and Annabel, children of Laurie; and five great-nieces and great-nephews, Emili, Sophia, Jonathan, Leonardo, and Raphael from the Finn family; and his aunt Judy Dick of Bradenton, Florida; as well as many cousins.
A graveside service and burial will be held at St. Brigid’s Cemetery (85 North Maple Street, Hadley, MA) at 10:00 AM, Friday, August 2nd, with a celebration of life following at 11:30 AM at the Amherst Public House (40 University Drive, Amherst, MA).
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
CAROL SCHABACKER of HADLEY, MA, December 4, 1942 – July 22, 2024
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Carol Schabacker, 82, of Hadley, passed away on July 22, 2024, after a brief illness. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt to many. She was the daughter of Felix and Julia Peterson (Tidlund) and a sibling to David (Ellie) and Alan (Becky). She graduated from Amherst Regional School in 1959. Her tenacity and expertise with numbers helped her begin her career at Amherst Savings Bank and later with the treasurer’s office at UMASS Amherst until 2000 when she retired.
She met her husband, Don, in March of 1962, and after a brief courtship married on June 1, 1963. While traveling with her husband’s job she had four children: Don Schabacker (Betsy); Gail Wright (partner, Michael Salvatore); Scott Schabacker (Melissa); and Kristi Callaghan (Jim). She also had six grandchildren: Patrick, McKenzie, Caroline, Sean, Ashley, and Samuel. She treasured her time with them when they were young making their birthday cakes, decorating gingerbread houses, making Halloween costumes, taking them for day trips, and spending time with them on several trips as they matured.
Carol loved to read, play cards, and watch HGTV and UCONN women’s basketball. As a couple, they enjoyed traveling as much as possible to new places, but their trips to Maine was especially memorable. She was a careful listener and an exceptional friend to many. Carol, also known affectionately as Pete or Trinka, was a very selfless, thoughtful, and kind soul. She was a people person, and everyone who met her loved her. She will be missed tremendously, but her best attributes will live on through her family and friends.
Calling hours will be held on July 31, 2024, at Douglas Funeral Home from 10:00-11:30 with burial service directly afterward.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the cause of your choice.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
Brian Walter Thompson of Chatham, October 21, 1946 – July 22, 2024
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Brian W. Thompson, 77, of Amherst and most recently Hopkinton and Chatham, MA, passed away peacefully and surrounded by family on July 22, 2024.
Brian grew up in Amherst, Massachusetts and graduated from Amherst Regional High School in 1964. He earned a BS from West Virginia Wesleyan College in 1968 and his MBA from Western New England University.
Shortly after graduating college, Brian began what would become a five-decade banking career as a trainee at Shawmut First Bank in Springfield, MA, where he worked his way up to President by the time he turned 40. When the bank was consolidated into the Shawmut Bank Holding Company, he left to join New Hampshire-based Pelham Bank and Trust Company as its President and CEO. That bank was sold in 1996 to First Essex Bancorp of Andover, MA, where he then served as President until it was acquired in 2004. He subsequently joined Commerce Bank and Trust Company in Worcester, MA and served as its President and CEO before the banks’ sale in 2018. Brian retired shortly thereafter to spend more time with family and friends.
Brian was regarded as a leader in his field, participating in many industry organizations, and was also an active board member of many non-profit organizations, including the United Way of Central Ma. He loved banking because it enabled him to support the local communities that he served, and he would encourage others to be generous with their time, as well. Over the years, he received much recognition for his leadership and service.
Brian always reflected on how fortunate he was to have supportive mentors and the opportunity to continue growing professionally. He most enjoyed building teams of great people in the organizations he led; he was always so proud of those he worked with and treated everyone with respect and appreciation.
He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Marilyn (Bates) Thompson, also of Amherst. He leaves his three children – Laura and her husband, Matt Colleran, of Hopkinton; Mark and his wife, Natalie Telfer, of Toronto, Canada; and Matthew and his wife, Sarah Blank, of London, U.K. He also leaves behind his seven beloved grandchildren – Taylor, Teddy, Tucker, and TJ Telfer-Thompson, and Riley, Jack, and Kennedy Colleran. He leaves a sister, Joanne Allen, of Naples, FL, a brother-in-law, Larry Bates, and his wife, Dottie, of Wareham, as well as many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents, Richard and Marjorie Thompson, of Amherst.
Brian always said he never had a bad day. He loved his work, his community, his friends and, above all, his family; Brian made his family his life. He never missed his children’s games, from youth baseball and softball through to college sports. As time passed, his focus turned to his grandchildren, with weekends and travels spent watching soccer, hockey and dance recitals. He took tremendous pride in all of the athletic, academic and professional achievements of both his children and grandchildren.
Over the years, Brian and Marilyn’s house in Chatham became a special place for the family to come together, especially over the 4th of July holiday. He loved those moments and his family will always cherish the memories they shared with him there.
Brian enjoyed life to its fullest and treasured each day. He loved to play golf, always wishing he was a little better than he was. He was a member of Chatham Seaside Links and Cranberry Valley Golf Course. He also loved the Red Sox and Chatham A’s, the morning paper, a coffee from Cumberland Farms, a hot beach, boat rides in Essex I and time spent with friends.
Brian is remembered for his kindness, generosity and selflessness. He would do anything to brighten the day of those around him. He will be dearly missed by his family, former colleagues and many friends.
Thank you to the UMass Memorial Medical team in Worcester, MA, whom Brian regarded as friends, for the care he received over the past years.
In lieu of flowers, gifts in memory of Brian may be made to UMASS Memorial Health in support of the ‘Cancer Center of Excellence’ (Leukemia designation). Give online at donate.umassmemorial.org
Calling hours will be held Thursday, August 1, from 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM at Douglass Funeral Home, 87 North Pleasant Street, Amherst, MA.
A Celebration of Brian’s Life will follow at 3:00 PM at the Inn on Boltwood, 30 Boltwood Ave, Amherst, MA.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
Paul Joseph Wysocki of Amherst, January 12, 1951 – July 22, 2024
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Paul Joseph Wysocki, age 73, passed away at home on Monday, July 22nd surrounded by family
Known as the “Polish Kid,” with his 85 Pete Paul was a faithful family man and a beloved local resident. He leaves behind his wife of 48 years, Jeanne Wysocki, his son Patrick Wysocki, and granddaughter Molly wysocki.
Paul had a passion for attending tractor antique truck shows, and the fryeburg fair hobbies that reflected his love for tradition and passion for farming his family’s land. He will be remembered for his deep knowledge of fixing equipment “junk” and teaching others the same and his unwavering dedication to his family.
Paul’s presence will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
A graveside service will be held Monday July 29, at 11:00AM in Wildwood Cemetery, Amherst.
A reception will follow at the Hadley American Legion post 271.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
CAROL A. LEE of AMHERST, MA, March 21, 1934 – July 13, 2024
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AMHERST, MA: Carol Aschenbach Lee, 90, of Amherst, Massachusetts died on July 13, 2024 after a short illness.
Born and raised in the upper east side of Manhattan, she lived next door to her girls school, Brearley. There she was noted for arriving last each morning, along with the girl with the longest commute. Despite her imperfect language skills, she took french for 12 years, and spent the summer after graduation in Paris, contemplating being a couturier. Her father indulged her love of dresses when she wrote to him those magic words, “it’s on sale.”
One of her treasured possessions was a letter from Laurence Olivier rejecting her offer of knitted socks, because he only wore argyle. Another treasured possession was a baby book created in 1934 by Dr. Seuss for her parents, back when he was just Ted Geisel.
She chose to go to Smith College over Radcliffe, because they had a program abroad and she very much wanted to go to Paris her junior year. Although she regretted her choice at the time (Rural! No men!), she loved her school reunions greatly, and was sad the pandemic and age interfered with attending the last few that were held.
Carol majored in art history and had a lifelong love of history, art and politics. Too arty to fit in a traditional world, and too traditional to fit in an arty world, she was always in a category of her own.
She met her husband, James E. Lee, while in graduate school studying urban planning at Harvard where he was lecturing as a city planner. They were married from 1962 until his death in 1985. She was also the long term partner of Richard Mudgett, who died in 2018. She loved them both dearly. She was able to travel to many destinations with Richard, and enjoyed visits to China, India, Yemen, Scandinavia, Italy, Egypt, Turkey, and Russia. She always regretted not being able to go with Jim Lee on a train trip across Canada, or on the Orient Express.
She leaves behind her daughter, Amity, of Amherst MA and her partner Michael Chiaravalle; grandsons Owen James Bradley and Ellis Edwin Bradley, myriad friends and family, including stepchildren David Lee and his wife Laurie (Winthrop, ME), Steven Lee and his wife Cathy Gerson (Barnardsville, NC), Kenneth Lee and his wife Vickie (Littleton, CO), Rebecca Rayfield and her husband Barry (Wake Forest, NC), Jon Lee and his wife Sally Richter (Arlington, MA), and Cynthia Lee (San Francisco, CA) and her partner Mike Valenza, along with many additional stepgranchildren. A special shout out to Vivian Glassman (Newton, MA) and Margaret Malone (Amherst, MA) for being her adopted family for decades.
One of her greatest joys in recent years was having a martini at 30Boltwood, and the kindness shown to her there by the staff was extraordinary (a huge shoutout to Adam, for his exceptional compassion).. She also loved her classes taken through Five College Learning in Retirement, her weekly Shakespeare class, and playing bridge. She was reading and thinking and learning, and yearning to talk ultra liberal politics, until the very end.
There will be no memorial, but if you want to remember her, consider subscribing to The Progressive Populist based in Storm Lake, Iowa, or watch an episode of Democracy Now with Amy Goodman in her honor at democracynow.org.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
DAVID CLEON BOOTH of MONTAGUE, MA, February 13, 1959 – July 9, 2024
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David Cleon Booth (Booty), 65, of Pelham, Massachusetts passed away unexpectedly on July 9, 2024.
David was born in Northampton, Massachusetts on February 13, 1959 the son of Cleon (Buzzy) and Dora Beaulieu-Booth.
After many years of service David retired from the University of Massachusetts Police Department Motor Unit in 2016.
David had a passion for music and was a talented guitar player. He enjoyed fly fishing at the family cabin in Maine with his father, son Steven and cousin Chris. Some of David’s favorite times were spent tailgating and cheering on the Patriots at Gilette Stadium with his son and friends. He was known for his sense of humor and loved a good laugh.
David was well loved and will be remembered and missed forever. He is survived by his father Cleon (Buzzy) Booth, son Steven Booth and former wife Janice Booth of Shutesbury. Also, Uncle Ernie Booth of Northampton and Aunt Lucille Guerrin of Easthampton along with many cousins and his fellow Law-Enforcement “family”.
He was preceded in death by his mother Dora Bealieu Booth and sister Doreen Booth.
Calling hours will be Thursday, July 25, 2024 from 4p-7p at Douglass Funeral Service, 87 N. Pleasant St. Amherst, Ma. 01002,
A graveside service will be held on Friday, July 26, 2024, at the Pelham Valley Cemetery, North Valley Road, Pelham, MA. at 11am.
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com