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FAITH P. CONLON of AMHERST, March 28, 1927 – January 21, 2022
Faith P. Conlon, 94, passed away Friday, January 21,2022 at the
Arbors at Amherst.
A 64 year resident of Amherst, Faith was born on March 28, 1927 in Pittsfield, the daughter of the late James H. and Emma L. Pelton.
Growing up in the Berkshires, Faith was an avid and skilled skier, and a strong swimmer, serving as both a local swimming instructor and waterfront director.
A 1944 graduate of Lenox High School, Faith was Salutatorian of her senior class. Following a post grad year at Northfield School for Girls, she enrolled at UMASS Amherst in 1946. She would graduate in 1949 with a degree in English and Sociology, and a minor in Education. While at UMASS, she was a member of Chi Omega Sorority and she met the love of her life, Jack, who was also a student there after he returned home from World War II.
Following graduation together, Faith put her own career aspirations on hold to support Jack in his pursuit of advanced degrees at UCONN and Michigan State University.
From there it was back east to the University of Maine, where Jack began his teaching career, and in 1958 they landed back in Amherst where Jack would spend the rest of his career teaching and in administration at UMASS Amherst and Faith would raise their two sons.
Jack always credited Faith with being the bedrock of strength for him over his career as an educator. They were equal partners in all aspects of life. They truly personified the word “couple” and just adored each other. They were a true partnership over 69 years of wedded bliss.
Faith was active in the local and university community, serving as a volunteer member of many organizations, including Amherst Women’s Club, University Women’s Club and the Cooley Dickinson Hospital Auxiliary. She was an avid reader and enjoyed traveling; especially the many wonderful family vacations throughout New England.
The one constant to these trips was always the ocean, and in 1976 Faith and Jack purchased a second home in Hyannis on Cape Cod, where they would enjoy special times over the next almost four decades.
Faith was predeceased in 2019 by her beloved husband, Jack. She is survived by her loving sons Jim and his wife Carol (Devine) of Wilbraham, and Mark and his wife Debra (Goodridge) of Westford, her cherished grandchildren Tim and Sarah, and her nephews, cousins and their families.
The family wishes to thank Faith’s wonderful extended family at The Arbors at Amherst and MagCare. The caregivers from both organizations were truly her angels over the past six years. We will be forever grateful to all of them.
There are no visitation hours. A private family burial service will be held at Wildwood Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Faith’s name to Hospice of the Fisher Home in Amherst at www.fisherhome.org.
To leave condolences for the family online, please visit www.douglassfuneral.com.
CHARLES WILLIAM HEFFERNAN of AMHERST, January 11, 1929 – January 8, 2022
Charles William Heffernan (January 11,1929 – January 8, 2022) passed away peacefully at home in Amherst, just shy of his 93rd birthday. Son of William
Heffernan and Alice Roberts Heffernan, Charles was born in E. Waterboro, ME where he grew up until he attended New England Conservatory as a piano
major earning a Music Certificate. After teaching music in rural Maine for eight years, Charles married Ethel Briggs (now Meg Worcester) in 1957 and attended the University of Michigan, earning his Bachelor/ Master of Music Degree and a Doctoral Degree in Music Education.
Charles’ university teaching career led him to the University of Washington, Oakland University (MI), Arizona State University, the University of Toronto, and the University of Massachusetts. Through his steady, patient guidance, fine
musicianship—all peppered with his dry wit—he inspired and influenced
countless students, community chorus members, musical theater casts and others throughout his career and into retirement.
Beyond his 50-year teaching career, Charles held passions for opera and
riding his motorcycle. Through the years, he also developed his philosophy of
“kinship with all life” inspired by his rural upbringing, and love for all animals no matter how large, small, or seemingly inconsequential. He felt connected to them all.
One of Charles’ great priorities was his daughter, Priscilla. He devoted
continuous love and support to her as she grew up, teaching her to play the
piano, and taking into consideration how each of his career moves would also impact her. Later, he continued to be a wonderful grandfather to his two
granddaughters.
Charles spent much of his retirement with his beloved partner of 26 years, Bob, and their dog, Henry. He continued to conduct, first as the director of the Keene Chorale and then the Quabbin Valley Pro Musica Chorus. He enjoyed
visits from his family and friends and traveling to Maine to visit other family members.
Charles is survived by his longtime partner, Robert Cyr, daughter, Priscilla Johnson, son-in-law, Daniel Johnson, and granddaughters, Hannah Johnson and Emily Collins.
A service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please send donations
to the Dakin Humane Society https://www.dakinhumane.org/index-old.html
Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
SUSAN LOWENSTEIN of AMHERST, December 17, 1926 – January 8, 2022
The Lowenstein and Kitchell families invite her relatives and friends to a celebration of her life on Thursday, June 23, 2022, at 11:00 a.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Society, 121 North Pleasant Street, Amherst, Massachusetts, 01002. (Parking is available on the street, behind CVS, and in the above and underground parking at the Boltwood Garage, Boltwood Walk in Amherst.)
Susie spent a lifetime loving music. She studied at Bard College and at Columbia University, where she completed a Master’s degree in Music Composition. Her musical reach was widespread in the Pioneer Valley, as an organist, a participant in chamber music performances, and an attendee at local musical events.
Susie was deeply involved in women’s rights. An early member of the Abortion Rights Fund of Western Massachusetts, the all-volunteer organization helping people pay for abortion care, she was also a strong supporter of Tapestry Health, dedicated to reproductive rights and HIV prevention. She was also deeply involved in local and national politics, her outreach extending to wherever she lived, whenever it was needed.
Susie’s heart and home were open to family, friends, and strangers alike. She will always be remembered for her epic Thanksgiving celebrations, at which there were rarely fewer than thirty guests. To the end of her life, she was making new friends, including the Amherst Garden Club and her reading, poker-playing, and swimming groups. Ready at a moment’s notice to set another place (or ten!) at her table, she will be missed for her irreverent humor, her outspokenness, and her constant hospitality and generosity.
Donations in her name may be made to the Abortion Rights Fund: www.ARFWM.org; Jacob’s Pillow Dance Festival, www.jacobspillow.org; or Treehouse, www.treehousefoundation.net.
ELIZABETH ALICE HARRIS of MASS, January 22, 1937 – November 25, 2021
In her late teens she met and married an American Serviceman who brought her to the United States. She mothered seven children by him until the two divorced some years later.
In 1971 she met the love of her life, Jack Harris, who would later become her husband in 1973. The two spent forty-eight blissful years together through thick and thin, traveling the United States and Europe. They had one child together.
Alice, as those close to her called her, loved to trout fish and was an avid bowler at the Northampton Bowling Alley, where she bowled on Thursday nights in a league for close to thirty years. She was most proud of the 7-10 split that she once picked up and talked about it for years. She loved to knit and crochet, or “crotch’it,” as she liked to say.
She was certainly one-of-a-kind and not afraid to speak her mind and tell you what she thought in the only way she could. They certainly broke the mold after her. There is and always will be a void in the lives of those that loved and knew her.
She is predeceased by her daughters, Patty, Kathy and Dotty. She is survived by her husband, Jack, her daughters, Kimberly and Sherri, and her sons, George, David and Joshua. She was a grandmother and great-grandmother to many including her granddaughter whom she raised, Michelle Riopelle.
Calling hours for Alice will be held at Douglass Funeral Service in Amherst, Thursday January 20, from 4:00 – 6:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to the Alzheimer’s Association of Massachusetts. Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
RICHARD N. BENTLEY of MASS, March 3, 1937 – January 13, 2022
Dick was born and grew up in Chicago, then moved east to attend Groton and then Yale. After graduating, he became an urban planner and took great pride in his work on housing integration in Chicago, San Francisco, New York, and Boston. At age 50 he left urban planning to settle in Amherst to follow his passion in a new career as a writer. He earned an MFA in creative writing from Vermont college, and went on to a prolific writing career as a poet and a short story author. His work earned many honors, including Pushcart Prize recognition and the Paris Review/Paris Writers Workshop International Fiction Award. He published four books of poetry, short stories, and non-fiction, all illustrated with his rich, complex artwork.
Dick’s family was his overwhelming joy, whether in his study of his ancestors dating back to the early 1800’s, or in celebrating the birth of his youngest grandchild, Teddy, in 2021. Dick’s passion for family history brought the past to life as he aptly narrated, documented, and shared the lively stories of the Bentley clan. He loved a good argument, or maybe a discussion on politics, history, literature, and lately, the meaning of life. His questions were endless, his laughter boundless. Stories of growing up abounded and sharing time with his nieces and nephews was often a part of dinner conversation. Thanksgivings in Amherst were the highlight of every year as Dick held court in the candle light of our Amherst home, encouraging others to take a turn at reading a poem aloud to the table, reminding us that in his childhood, all poems would have been memorized.
His sketches, pastels, watercolors, and collages filled his home with the creative spirit that embodied him. Dick will be remembered reading, always reading, most likely Cheever or Fitzgerald, or with pen in hand deftly putting into words the world he saw or felt each day of his life. One of his last moments found him with a special friend at his bedside, reading to him from “Oh What a Paradise it Seems,” a title that embodies Dick’s view of life. We are so grateful to the hospice of the Fisher home, who provided Dick with comfort and dignity in his peaceful death at home, surrounded by his loved ones.
Dick lived in a world of words, written, read, and spoken with the many who knew and loved him. We would like to close with some of his writing, words that continue to speak to us although his is gone.
“To die is to lift us without limits.” Dick Bentley, Leaving Chicago
“If time were like the tide, we would surge into the future then rush back into the past.” Dick Bentley, Landlocked, All Rise
BENJAMIN RODRIGUEZ of CHICOPEE, May 17, 1938 – January 7, 2022
It is with heavy hearts that the family of Benjamin Rodriguez announces his passing on January 7, 2022. Benjamin was born in Humacao (Barrio Mariana), Puerto Rico and was the middle of thirteen children (Pablo, Carmen, Marcelina, Anastacio, Juan, Benjamin, Modesta, Jesus, Luis, Andres, Rosa, Miguel, Ana) to his parents, Antonio Rodriguez and Juana Carrasquillo.
He was born into poverty and his early life’s experiences cemented his core values: hard work, religion, sense of justice and belief in education. He graduated high school from Colegio San Antonio Abad in Humacao and attended St. John’s University in Minnesota for two-years on a scholarship before completing his B.A. at Catholic University in Ponce, Puerto Rico. He met the love of his life and married Gladys Serrano in 1964. After the birth of their first child, Ivette, his family relocated to New York City where he worked in education. After a brief stint in Narragansett, Rhode Island where his son, Benjamin Rodriguez Jr was born, the family relocated to Amherst, Massachusetts where he would live, work and raise his family for the next 48 years.
At UMass, while earning his M.A (1972) and Ed.D (1975), he was instrumental in creating and served as director of the Bilingual Collegiate Program (BCP) until his retirement in 2002. Working alongside many great administrators and students-whom he remembered until his final day- he and the BCP would recruit, tutor and graduate thousands of students from marginalized backgrounds. He also served as chairman of the board of the New England Farm Workers Council. For his efforts the University of Massachusetts bestowed upon him the Chancellor’s Medal for exceptional contribution to the University. However, his true reward was the success of the students and the many friends he made along the way.
Much of his work was done in a suit and tie but he was a “jibaro” at heart and felt most comfortable working the land in shoddy clothing. His annual pig roasts were the talk of the town and he earned the reputation of someone that would always be there to help a friend in need. He rarely missed church and was always the one to give the New Year’s toast. He loved sports and was an avid New York Yankees fan.
He leaves his wife of 57 years, Gladys and his pride and joy, Ivette of Chicopee Massachusetts and Benjamin Jr, his grandchildren, Brinley, Elise, Nora and Benjamin III of Suffield, Connecticut and several beloved brothers and sisters.
The family will hold services at a later time due to the Covid-19 pandemic. Ben Rodriguez’s remains will eventually lie in the land that he loved, Humacao, Puerto Rico.
The family requests that in lieu of flowers, please send donations in the name of Benjamin Rodriguez to either the UMass Center for Multicultural Advancement and Student Success https://www.umass.edu/cmass/or the American Diabetes Association https://diabetes.org/. For condolences, please visit the memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
Rosalie Mikalunas of Amherst, February 6, 1949 – January 9, 2022
Rosalie Mikalunas passed away peacefully on Sunday, January 8th, 2022 at the Hospice of the Fisher Home in Amherst. Rosalie was born in Holyoke, Ma on February 6, 1949; her fathers birthday, the daughter of Joseph and Mary (Pento) Vassallo. Her childhood was spent growing up in Pelham along with her seven brothers and sister. Rosalie was a graduate of Amherst Regional High school, Class of 1967.
Rosalie married Robert Miklaunas on April 26, 1969.
Rosalie had a passion for baking. For 26 years Rosalie worked as the Head Baker at Wildwood Elementary school. Along with the children, family and friends enjoyed the benefits of Rosalie’s joy in baking. Brownies and cookies were made by the dozens. She challenged anyone to make a better Chocolate Chip Cookie. And a challenge never included less than 6 dozen for all to enjoy!! When not in the kitchen, Rosalie could be found watching her Blue Birds in the back yard, a true haven for the birds where family, upon family of blue bird found refuge and unlimited food. Above all Rosalie loved spending time with her cherished granddaughters Makenzie and Mikayla Mikalunas.
Sadly, Rosalie was predeceased by her two sons, Robert on March 15, 2021 and Michael on May 10, 2009. She is survived by her beloved husband of fifty-two years, Robert, her two sweet granddaughters, Mikayla and Makenzie Mikalunas and their mother Kelly Egan, along with sister Carol (David) Orrell; brothers, John (Trish) Vassallo, Michael (Kathy) Vassallo, Robert (Lynda) Vassallo and sister-in law Helen Vassallo. She was pre-deceased by brothers Joseph, Angelo, Paul and Richard Vassallo and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
Private services will be held at Douglass Funeral Service. Friends are invited to attend a graveside service on Friday Jan. 14, at 10:45 AM in St. Brigid’s Cemetery, Hadley. Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
JOAN B. OLANYK of SUNDERLAND, July 5, 1929 – December 16, 2021
Joan graduated from Amherst High School class of 1947. She married George Olanyk in 1950.
In addition to her parents she was predeceased by her husband George, brothers Edward Lashway, Lawrence Lashway, Leonard Lashway, Richard Lashway and Daniel Lashway, sisters Margaret Poole, Alice Adams, Florence Powers, Helen Adams, Joyce Matuzko and Mary Wilson.
Survivors: Sons William Olanyk and his wife Darcy of Sunderland, Grandsons Zachary Olanyk of Pennsylvania and Alex Olanyk of Sunderland. Peter Olanyk and his wife Liz of Sunderland, Granddaughter Amy Olanyk Petry and her husband Jon, of West Virginia, great granddaughters Ava and Liv Petry. Grandson, Peter Olanyk and his family, Jenn, Lilli and Cicci, of Palmer Ma. Sisters Ethel Bozak of Agwam, Ma, Harriet Eddy of Leverett, Ma, Brothers William Lashway of Williamsburg, Ma and Harry Lashway of Florida. As well as several brother and sister in-laws and their families.
Joan loved spending time visiting family, playing cards, the beach, cooking and spending time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Funeral services will be held in the spring. Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
SALLY VANASSE of AMHERST, September 11, 1934 – December 27, 2021
Sally Vanasse passed peacefully at her home in Amherst on December 27, 2021. She was 87 and had been ill for several years. Sally was born and raised in Florence, Massachusetts by her parents, Ruth and Walter Rudy and was the second eldest of four children. She graduated from Northampton High School and attended Northampton Commercial College. She was married to the late Louis Vanasse in 1954 and raised her family in Florence and Amherst. In the mid 70s Sally began her career as a personal banker at the Amherst Savings Bank, then Shawmut Bank, and went on to join the investment team at Hart and Patterson. She retired in 1999. Sally was a third generation Rotarian and a member of the Rotary Club of Amherst for 30 years. She was awarded a Paul Harris Fellow in 2004 in recognition for her service to the Club and community. This award is one of the highest honors Rotary can bestow upon a person. Recipients are Rotarians exemplifying the highest ideal in Rotary: placing service above self. A wonderful mother, grandmother, aunt, great-aunt and cat lover, Sally leaves behind her daughter, Nicole and son-in-law James Guerra of Chevy Chase, Maryland, her beloved grandson, Maxwell Guerra of New York City, and her sisters Ada Weiller of Florida and Betty Stark of Washington. She also leaves many nieces and nephews, and their families, from around the country. Her dear Maine Coon cat, Earl, has been lovingly placed by good friends and is now living in New Hampshire. Sally asked that in lieu of a funeral a celebration of life be planned for later this year. The family is requesting that instead of flowers, donations be made to the Amherst Rotary Good Works Fund Inc. where the monies will be directed to scholarships. Donation checks should be mailed directly to Richard Mathews, 15 Hunters Hill Circle, Amherst, MA 01002. Memorial guestbook at www.douglassfuneral.com
LOIS BASS of AMHERST, December 21, 1947 – December 30, 2021
Lois Bass transitioned peacefully on December 30, 2021 in Longmeadow, MA after a short battle with pancreatic cancer. She died just over a week after her 74th birthday, supported by many loving friends and family as well as the very kind staff at JGS nursing home.
Born on December 21, 1947 in Queens, NY to Max and Ruth Bass, Lois was the child of second generation immigrants and held a deep respect for her Jewish roots. Like her ancestors, she was a trailblazer– raised as much by her family of origin as she was by the music and culture of her childhood, and the vibrant family of friends she surrounded herself with.
She attended Martin Van Buren High School, the University of Massachusetts, and earned her Master’s of Social Work from the University of Michigan. Lois never stopped learning—about herself, her profession, her community and the world. An expert in Somatic Experience Therapy (SE) and the Trauma Resiliency Model, she taught classes at Smith College School of Social Work in diversity and anti-racism, and ran a psychotherapy practice for over 30 years. For many years she delighted listeners as a disc jockey on WMUA where she played songs of struggle and peace along with music from her childhood and her many international travels. She often took requests from her audience, honoring their life events through music.
When Lois set her mind to something, she found a way to make it happen. In 1982, she (and her former partner, Judith Evans) became one of the first lesbian couples to conceive a baby via artificial insemination, a novel technology for the time. A proud mother (and grandmother), she paved the way for many same-sex families that came after her. An activist, a speaker, and an all-around badass, her commitment to social justice was represented through every aspect of her existence–her art, music, work, and way of being. After Hurricane Katrina, Lois traveled to New Orleans to support First Responders, and later taught SE to clinicians internationally. Lois didn’t simply visit a place, but truly immersed herself in the experience of being there. She left this earth with many close friendships around the world.
Lois is predeceased by her parents, Max and Ruth Bass, and her sister Sally Bass Hoffman (2010).
She is survived by her daughter Gwen Bass (Elizabeth Solomon), her stepson Dan Evans (Gayle Evans), her 5 grandchildren Noah Evans, Eli Evans, and Mataya Bass, Michael Bass, and Jonah Bass, her sister Norma Bass, niece Abbe Hoffman (Daryl Sichler), and nephew Jesse Hoffman (Stephanie Hoffman).
The family will hold a virtual memorial service on Thursday, January 6, 2021. Please check Lois’ facebook page for details.
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